I'm not going to get married, or have a gf until all my stuff is in trust, and all my affairs are set up in a way that I own nothing, have no income, etc.
As far as I'm concerned, if a woman 'doesn't need a man in her life', she doesn't need a man's money either. If she wants the kids too, because she 'doesn't need a man in her life' because she's a 'strong and independent woman', she doesn't need a man's money for the kids, and she can be 'strong and independent' somewhere else.
Marriage and relationships have become such that it's all liabilities for the men, and the woman has nothing but upsides no matter what choices she makes no matter how it affects the man's life. If she stays, he supports her, and if she leaves, he supports her. She has him support her even if she has another guy or guys on the side. She can be 'strong and independent', but it seems that she needs to have someone else's dimes to be that. And this has become a major problem in society.
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