If you're getting mail from the lawyer, the fun thing to do is to take what her lawyer sends to you, change the positions of the relevant details (names, property, etc.), and send it right back to the lawyer. It's all boilerplate anyways. (that's why there's grammar errors in it) Just use her lawyer's boiler plate letters against her.
Be sure to go after her shoes, handbag collection, jewelry, etc., if you have any memory of them.
Also, refuse to talk to her other than by text. If she sends any texts about anything other than the kids, don't respond, but put copies of them into the record, and send those to her lawyer. If she sends a string of them, send each one individually on an affidavit. If she gets threatening or abusive, file criminal charges.
At least that's what I would do.
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