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this sounds sadly familiar....what i would do (and have done/assisted with):

if she is willing to move (she really should, this is a safety thing)...let them know that mail theft is a federal offence. tell them she is leaving. have them release whatever is hers, and get her stuff out of there. basically "we're leaving with her things, nothing more or less, and we don't want trouble. leave us alone for today and were gone"

you probably want some large friends backing you up (i mean 'helping her move'), and you need to keep her from getting into it with anyone. the cops wont do anything, just call it a 'civil matter, go to court'

this is where you take care of her, because its the right thing to do. chances are something is going to happen that will make being able to afford it look like the least of your problems.

on another note...why was he not charged with falsifying a statement/obstruction?