NOT LEGAL ADVICE
leave the values of the firearms stuff to last
try to set values on the house, vehicles, debts and how they were caused, other assets like furniture, and how the assets are to be sold or distributed
worry about the major lifestyle things first
if there is agreement and no p-I-s-s-I-n-g- match song being sung then and on,y then deal with the items you treasure or might wish to argue over
get the major items dealt with first
start slow and try to be within 10% of the market current value on,each item
HOWEVER say in writing this is a estimate for negotiation purposes only to see if there is agreement on items and to organize the,ones to be sold
DONT AGREE TO,ANYTHING, DONT. OVE OUT AND DONT LOSE YOUR COOL
other so-called experts still practicing law ANS NOT REFERRING TO,ANYBODY,HERE OK
we are not lawyers but they only know the law, they are not ever taught negotiation skills or how to take back values once agreed upon
I like both parties to make up WITHOUT PREJUDICE LISTS and exchange them at the same time or get together and talk about values in general
other wise yiu can be backed into a corner and cannot retract the values
GO THROUGH ONE ITEM AT A. TIME
INDICATE IT IS WITHOUT THE ABILITY TO CHECK VALUES THEOUGH APPRAISAL OR OTHERWISE
Sssoooooooo
it she is reasonable then it goes smoothly and quickly
difficulty is when they get advice from their mother, girlfriend or lawyer
the old adage works well
HOPE FOR THE BEST PLAN FOR THE WORST
life is a mess and John Wayne once said
life is tough, it is even tougher when you are stupid
have fun more to it than this but I cannot type and I,am old and everyone else is the real expert
Later off on holidays tomorrow am
Jeffy
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