Me too - back the boat into the water??? the boat will, in fact, ironically, float ..... no need to be muscling anything for any reason.
Loading - find the sweet spot .... mine is when the bottom of the load guide is just touching the surface of the water. Coast the boat onto the bunks at a speed about the equivalent of a moderate to brisk walk. She slides up and settles about 12"-18" short of the yoke - no worries.
If it's a little windy and choppy, I back the trailer in a touch less (more out of the water maybe an inch or two) and increase the load speed slightly (brisk walk to slow jog) to eliminate the time the wind or the waves push me off course.
Watching guys wrestle their boats off/on trailers or power off/on to trailer bunks does nothing but scour the boat launch up, cause excessive wears and tear on motors, bunks and hulls not to mention the occasion crash into a yoke. Never understood this.
This works on big boats, small boats, deep vees, tri hulls, pontoons etc.... you just have to take a mental note of the depth on a known part of your trailer. The angle of the launch is somewhat secondary and much, much less of a factor.
Bunks are the way to go ..... don't be scared to get them wet.