Sage advice. We had this just last June with an uncle, we drove to Winnipeg to see him when we heard he'd taken a turn for he worse but he passed away when we were around Brandon
. Staying in his home that very night and the following week was a little weird but it also had its moments for reflection. The poor fellow had been widowed 3 years prior and they were childless. A stellar human with a great sense of humor, a highly developed mischievous streak and genuine caring for others, he's sorely missed.
Make the plans for the visit. "Someday" passes all too soon.