girl trouble

alodar · #1 07-22-2011

Ok so as the title says im havin some girl troubles a girl i used to see made it super clear to me she wanted me back in her life. After mucho mucho debate with myself i ended up accepting the offer what can i say i still love her...even still after round 2. Once again shes breaking my heart. Im not sure what I did to deserve this again am i just a sucker or what. I spent a few weeks while i was workin in redwater at her place with her complaining about how much time i spent at work (6 weeks straight on my second week off or is it my thors been off.since july 4) now that im off she wants nothing to do with me literally she said s... im sure theres more to it but im obviously missing it id like for you guys to analize it so maybe i can see what the hell im doing. clearly i cant think straight on my own. shes been begging me to hang then when im available shes down right cold. Make any sense?

Redfrog · #2 07-22-2011

Do what you always do and you'll get what you always got.

Redfrog

Alberta Bigbore · #3 07-22-2011

Ooooh tha Lord !

walk away..... been with many of the "just can't make them happy" types... Unless it was spending money on them.

Pi$$ on 'er and lets go to the ti*ty bar..... Lol.

Stop Staring at my Rack · #4 07-22-2011

you deserve better..... time to move on...

alodar · #5 07-22-2011

I dont get it mr frog. How does that relate to my sitch... i think ive been on it for too long

TreeGuy · #6 07-22-2011

She love's your paycheque more than you.

Walk away.

Running's good too.

alodar · #7 07-22-2011

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Originally Posted by Alberta Bigbore

Ooooh tha Lord !

walk away..... been with many of the "just can't make them happy" types... Unless it was spending money on them.

Pi$$ on 'er and lets go to the ti*ty bar..... Lol.

hmmm tempting.... cant eat it or hump it clearly theres only one way to deal with it at that point pee on her and walk away ........ or pee in her general direction? My bros fiancee tells me shes bad for me... i guess i should listen?

alodar · #8 07-22-2011

General consesus so far is to release the fish for someone else to catch.... any tips on dealing with the emotional fallout for round 2 .while strippers is a nice idea i usually save them fine ladies for when im happy

Redfrog · #9 07-22-2011

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Originally Posted by alodar

I dont get it mr frog. How does that relate to my sitch... i think ive been on it for too long

OK I've got my slow keyboard. Let's try this again. with pics.

LAst time did it work? No
This time did it work? No
Next time will it work? Im gonna go with 'No' again.

Do something different. you may get something different. So far it seems like

alodar · #10 07-22-2011

Quote:

Originally Posted by TreeGuy

She love's your paycheque more than you.

Walk away.

Running's good too.

Funny how without knowing the whole story u kinda picked out a key factor of tue original break up

alodar · #11 07-22-2011

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Originally Posted by Redfrog

OK I've got my slow keyboard. Let's try this again. with pics.

LAst time did it work? No
This time did it work? No
Next time will it work? Im gonna go with 'No' again.

Do something different. you may get something different. So far it seems like

lol ok maybe i did understand but didnt want to.... ty

roger · #12 07-22-2011

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Originally Posted by alodar

after round 2. Once again shes breaking my heart... am i just a sucker or what... im off she wants nothing to do with me literally .... im sure theres more to it... shes been begging me to hang... then when im available shes down right cold.

sounds like she needs one of them scranwy little dogs 'purse poodles' to drag around. right now your a fine substitute, on her terms.

ya answered your own question,
you have 24hrs to send 'Nessie back to the loch and face-to-face, none of this facebook breakup crap..
bigbore has it right!

bigd · #13 07-22-2011

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Originally Posted by alodar

Ok so as the title says im havin some girl troubles a girl i used to see made it super clear to me she wanted me back in her life. After mucho mucho debate with myself i ended up accepting the offer what can i say i still love her...even still after round 2. Once again shes breaking my heart. Im not sure what I did to deserve this again am i just a sucker or what. I spent a few weeks while i was workin in redwater at her place with her complaining about how much time i spent at work (6 weeks straight on my second week off or is it my thors been off.since july 4) now that im off she wants nothing to do with me literally she said s... im sure theres more to it but im obviously missing it id like for you guys to analize it so maybe i can see what the hell im doing. clearly i cant think straight on my own. shes been begging me to hang then when im available shes down right cold. Make any sense?

I'm sittin' out on this one...

alodar · #14 07-22-2011

As i sit here drinkin my beer i realize maybe i shouldnt have gone for round 2 based on the unanimous response

bigd · #15 07-22-2011

seriously, walk away from her. She is poison and will drag you down and slowly destroy you emotionally. Not a healthy foundation for a relationship...especially when the objective people that know you don't think she's right for you.

It's a no-brainer Dude

SonnyJ · #16 07-22-2011

This thread needs pics...

alodar · #17 07-22-2011

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Originally Posted by SonnyJ

This thread needs pics...

Did u not see the cat? Wheres chub hes proply got a video

pottymouth · #18 07-22-2011

These type of women always want what they can't have ! Especially if they make huge coin, or hear how well your doing without them !

I'd do her best friend, then walk away !

lone wolf · #19 07-22-2011

Did it work the first time ......... NO
Did it work the second time ............ NO

Do yourself a favor, run, and don't ever look back. Life is too short for the chaos and mayhem that this type of woman can cause.

Like the song lyric says ("Invisible Man:Theory of a Deadman")

"Going once, going twice, F... this I'm gone !!"

Kingfisher · #20 07-22-2011

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Originally Posted by pottymouth

These type of women always want what they can't have ! Especially if they make huge coin, or hear how well your doing without them !

I'd do her best friend, then walk away !

I love this answer. I'm with PM. Do her best friend and then walk.

Rob

alodar · #21 07-22-2011

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Originally Posted by Kingfisher

I love this answer. I'm with PM. Do her best friend and then walk.

Rob

so whats the situation if i already did her best friend before i came back............. i aparently didnt do the last part n walk away man i feel soo ****ty right now. None of our close mutual friends think we should be together but im just sooooooo hing up... i know i should leave her be. Even if I do i know the situation if gunna happen again how do u get rid of a girl whos so embedded in ur life

unclebuck · #22 07-22-2011

The definition of insanity - doing the same thing more than once and expecting a different result!!!!

Kingfisher · #23 07-22-2011

Good one Uncle Buck

Seriously???? You already know the answer. So look yourself in the mirror and make the right decision.

DITCH THE DODO. Just do it now before it becomes any worse.

You'll move on and Just cut all ties and don't bother even talking to her again. Don't text. Don't Facebook. No phone calls. NOTHING. She will want in again. That's a given. So do yourself a favor now and read and follow line 2.

Be a man and face up to it. You know that you already knew the answer before you asked the question.

Rob

catnthehat · #24 07-22-2011

Well, everyone deserves a second chance - she had hers.
Now take yours - GO!!
You think it's bad now because you are away and working too much?
Wait until hunting season and see what happens, if you REALLY want to hear it!!

Get out now......
Cat

doetracks · #25 07-22-2011

Coming from a woman -

She doesn't know what she wants. Sadly, you're the one that'll pay the penance for that.

You owe it to yourself to break it off. You may love her but don't allow yourself to be a doormat. There is someone out there for you that will treat you well. End it once and for all. Blow off her waterworks, she isn't going to change after, what - the third time? Fourth??

And please PLEASE do not subscribe to the "all women want me for is my money" crap - we're not all like that.

BloodHound70 · #26 07-22-2011

As Kingfisher said "You know that you already knew the answer before you asked the question."

You know what needs to be done. The chick is poison and it won't change. You think it's bad now, get her pregnant and watch what happens. Get out while you can before it is to late and CAN'T get out. Wake up and listen to what your friends are saying, they know the situation best. There are plenty of great gals out there, you just have to toss this looser aside and find one.

People deserve to be happy and clearly you are not or you wouldn't have opened this thread.

My 2 cents

BH

Skybuster · #27 07-22-2011

Sometimes a guy wants something really bad and he looks for every excuse to believe that gettin it is worth it. Your situation is clear by your posts, and is obviously clear to you. It is clear to your friends. All you need to do is put that clarity up front and keep it there.
She is obviously very self centered and life is all about her. That's not a relationship. That's servitude. Unless you are the masochistic type that likes to be shat upon continuously you truly don't want to continue. Run, don't walk, run away.
And hold your head up high. You're worth much more than that. Sometimes we get so low with the pain from a loss like this. But truthfully, it's not a loss, it's a gain, your freedom and your self respect.

Redfrog · #28 07-22-2011

Well after thinking on this while I was sound asleep

I'm thinking she may just need some direction. If you were to marry her I'll bet things would change.

Buy her a huge ring and have a big wedding.That should do the trick.

She won't change except for the worst and it will cost you a few bucks, but hey you'll be lying in the mud, bloody and bruised and finally get the message.

Some guys just have to pee on the electric fence to learn the lesson.

laut · #29 07-22-2011

We always think with the wrong head !!! Nowaday, the women can do whatever they want and we all fall for it. They give you a little love and care and we all forgot the past and how bad we got treated by women. Make sure she is not living with you for too long, otherwise, she will walk away with 1/2 of your money and house. IF it turn bad, she could phone the police and bull **** them a story then you will be in trouble. Nowaday, they can have sex with you at night and call it a rape the next morning. They can easily take all of your guns away very quickly. Think with the head above your shoulder and make the right decision. good luck.

u_cant_rope_the_wind · #30 07-22-2011

trade her off for some good fishing gear and dont look back